Hand lapping the valve seats is often a waste of time on used, worn seats. These are, more often than not, far too wide and usually bowed, thus compromising sealing properties. Add to that a bit of wear in the guide, and the freshly lapped seat will quickly deteriorate to the state it was before.
Freshly cut seats and ground valves CAN be lapped to complete the seal, but modern-day seat cutting methods have made the procedure almost obsolete. A well-ground valve will seal perfectly in a seat cut for example on a Serdi head servicing centre, usually no need for lapping.
Cam,
When re-using used valves, after grinding their seats and determining them servicable, their heads are cleaned up in the lathe with a piece of emery. The suction cup then works as it would on a new valve.
I hand lap the valves only to check they seal on the entire, freshly cut seat surface, a couple of turns is enough to ascertain this.
Even easier and quicker is to use engineers dye...
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