Gerald,
When fitting new o-rings, you should consider replacing the insulating plates as well. As Lothar has stated, many stubs are bowed, mostly from over-tightening. The stock insulating plates compress under excessive stud torque, bowing the inlet stubs considerably. Thicker than stock o-rings make matters even worse. I skim the stubs on just about every engine that I rebuild. Just a very slight skim allows the stock o-rings to be used.
The M7 nuts don't need 25Nm, they'll be just fine with 12.
piet