Two thoughts from my side:
1. The life of your freewheel clutch also depends on how you use your bike. Long haul or permanent start / stop on short haul.
The load is low if you only drive in good weather and high if you are out in the rain or on dusty roads.
These points may explain the different experiences.
2. I have worked with one-way clutches a lot in the printing industry.
Every manufacturer, whether SKF, FAG or machine manufacturers like Heidelberger, have always pointed out that grease must not be used, only thin, non-resinous oil.
This is logical for me, because the rollers have to grip and block as quickly as possible.
Grease on which metal debris and dust get stuck is suboptimal in terms of low static friction.
Thomas aus LAU