Correct torque is important for whatever grade of bolt is used for a given application.
8.8 high tensile bolts will tolerate a small amount of flexing without breaking, going up in tensile strength makes the bolts more brittle and prone to breaking. For an example the long bolt that holds the rubber mounted spigot for the RGS fairing is prone to fracture if a 12.9 bolt is used and comes loose, in this instance an 8.8 bolt would tolerate the vibrations better. FWIW I would stick to 8,8's for the engine mounts knowing that the vibration generated by the motor could easily loosen the joint and add stress to the bolt. important to torque the bolts up correctly.
Stainless steel bolts have a much lower tensile strength, just a tad higher than mild steel. 304 and 316 stainless steels have a tensile strength equivalent to 5.8 bolt. Higher strength stainless bolts are available from specialist suppliers but the normally available ones are 304 or 316.
Just Saying.
I,m not against stainless steel bolts, use them myself.
Stainless steel nuts and bolts of the same grade have a tendency to gall together if used dry, use some lubrication. Differing the grade of steel , ie, 316 matched with 304 stainless is less problematic. My preferred option is to use bright zinc coated Nylock nuts with stainless bolts.